Definitely would have left SOONER ! Fear really kept me back for far too long .
I would not have discussed my doubts with anyone else besides my husband and children . I would have told him earlier about my doubts and shared things with him sooner. Again fear of the unknown response held me back .
I made the mistake of saying too much to soon to my sister in law ,neice and brother ....but it really wouldn't have mattered much the outcome would have eventually been the same with them .
Otherwise I am satisfied with the way I left .